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Do you have a crush on that hot guy who works at the coffee shop every Saturday morning? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there. What you want to do is to get to know the guy better. The best way to do this is to have some good questions to ask a guy. If you are asking him questions that can be easily answered with yes or no, then you will easily lose him. He will lose interest and will not say anything further. If you truly want to know him, ask questions that will require him to give answers that tell you some details about his personality. Good questions to ask a guy should always be fun and endearing. You want the questions to make him smile, and not make him sweat buckets because he can’t think of anything to say. If you are curious to know what questions you could ask, then here are some examples.

Good Questions to Ask a Guy:

Where would you choose to live if money was no object, and you had an endless supply of it?

Some men who are happy with the hometowns where they grew up would say that they do not want to leave their current home. Men who are ambitious, and would like to see the world, may say that they want to live in various places. Be prepared for some unexpected answers. Your crush may say that he wants to live in a completely new continent. Do not forget to ask why he would like to live in the place that he stated.

What do you normally listen to, your heart or your mind?

Most men would probably say that they let their minds dictate what they are going to do next, but there are also some hopeless romantics who would have no qualms about saying that they let their hearts choose what they would do next. Asking this question will truly give you more information about him.

What is your pet peeve?

There are some weird things that people may find normal, but we do not like at all. The guy may say something hilarious, so you may be laughing for a long time. At the same time, if his pet peeve is one of your habits, you can take note of that in case you go out.

Do you like the “good questions to ask a guy” so far? There are still more that you can ask.

  1. What do you think is harder to do, asking for forgiveness or permission?
  2. What is one moment in your life that you want to forget?
  3. What games do you have on your phone?
  4. Is there something that you are allergic to that most people do not know?
  5. Would you rather order red wine or white wine?
  6. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
  7. Who is one person on Instagram that you consider your inspiration?

With all of the good questions to ask a guy so far, you will surely have more confidence to keeping the communication flowing with that hot guy at the coffee shop.